Friday, April 16, 2010

Choices We Make

I used to be a very indecisive person when I was younger. Well.. in my early 20s to be exact. Everyone goes through that phase, whereby you've just finished college, and starting out in the working life. Exposure, exposure, exposure. Every things are new and different. And trying to make the right choices in life.

That was me (and almost everyone).. then..

Now.. when I looked back, I've changed a lot. I'm a self-proclaimed hermit, still am in fact, but I socialize more, go out and see what's there for me to see. Made new friends, hi-bye friends, some foes (maybe?). I am a "thinker", and I usually think back on the choices I had made. Some are mere stupidity, and others are good choices, which I'm proud of. But the one most important thing is that whatever we have decided and did, either good or bad, never regret it.
Choices that I made makes me who I am today. Stronger, brighter and wiser. ;)

I don't let people decide and make the choices for me. I decide for myself, because I understood myself more than anyone. Yes, I do seek advise from friends and family, and some assurance on my choices, and people can influence me, but they can't control what choice I make in the end.

I hate it when people think they know what is right, and good for me. They don't even know what I think!! Sigh.. Anyhoo.. people can judge me by my choices, but they don't really know me now, do they? They think they do, but they don't. *wink* *wink*

I'm a mystery unto myself.. sometimes I don't even know why I make weird choices.. hahaha..
Nevertheless, I have no regrets.. well... maybe one or two, but I'm at peace with it now.. :D

Our road is long and winding and bumpy sometimes.. Overcome it with honesty and patience.
You'll get to a smoother road in no time.. ;)

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