Blaming Others to Feel Better??

I wrote an email to him, to say goodbye, because there's lots of things I need to tell him, and confronting him face-to-face won't let me express all of it.
So, I did it, and he accept it, but now he's putting up messages in skype for me to see, messages that hurts me a lot. After a week of "dumping him", he put up a message "true colors seen, take care always", then "6 pages can tell the truth of a person" something like that. Then stating life is full of misery and mystery, want to die, this and that. WTF?? He knows I will read it. I expected these from him. He's such a narrow-minded person and always keeps bitterness on his side.

He's doing a good job making me feel miserable, as if I'm not hurting inside as well. I know he's sad and hurt, but making me feel like all this is my fault, it's very childish and selfish of him.
Acting in denial, and not accepting the facts.

I'm trying to ignore him as much as I can, but it just gets on my nerve, so I put up a msg in MSN for him.. "trample me all you want if it ease your mind.. don't assume that it does not pain me" Hope he reads it and understand.

The main reason I left him was that he wants to be in control of everything, even my personal life. Which I think is not fair. He don't trust me, even though he said he does. His actions speaks otherwise. He gets overly jealous. He snoops my things behind my back. And he's such an egocentric, materialistic guy. The choices and decision he makes, almost all the time, is to his own benefits. Always.. If a guy makes you feel weak and inferior, better leave.. every one has an identity, and a mind to make choices. If he don't want to accept it, then he's not worth the time.

When I realised all this, it really wakes me up. Somehow I just felt that, if I don't leave him now, I won't in the future. It's hard. He has his good points too, I was happy, but not anymore. I promise myself 4 years ago, that I won't end up with a guy like this, and I intend to keep that promise. It's a burden I can't carry.

All in all, we're wrong to be together in the first place. So, yeah, I have my regrets, but I'm moving forward now.. hope he does too. He needs time.. slowly hopefully he will live a merrier life and not in bitter and resentful life.